Then, even if you do win that exhausting exchange, it means nothing. Facts, morality, the law, etc... all mean nothing to them. The only languages they speak are power and violence. We are not getting out of this chapter of history easily.
This is not unique to maga. Debate bros operate this way on the left as well.
It's easy to pick out this behavior in maga because they are so stupid, but all the "debate me, debate me, debate me," types are they same. They are just capable of sounding like what dumb people think a smart person sounds like.
There's virtually no point in trying to argue with or deprogram a hard-core MAGA cultist, but the few remaining moderate Republicans might possibly be rescued. If it's just impossible for them to vote Blue after a lifetime of hearing Dems are the most evil thing ever, then ask them to just sit this one out and not vote at all. They might be willing to do that. Even if they're hoping for "real Republicans" to one day return, by not voting MAGA again, they're still helping get rid of tRump.
Most of them online are NPCs. Bots, foreign accounts, grifters... They all parrot the same bullshit. And even if you come across someone who *might* be real, they're still just a bot since they are just parrots. Bad faith arguments.
Don't argue with people John Brown would have shot.
Although not to this extent, they way we all feel towards MAGA in term of arguing with them is the same I have felt toward most Christians I've met even as a kid. Didn't feel safe nor did I feel like I could discuss or be vulnerable with them
what's crazy is that they actually do, on occassion, accept a fact, but then they just accept it and say it's OK. Like, "he never murdered anyone" and then "well, it's all a ploy", then "Well, you've murdered too, but he had good reason and you're a murdere", then "well, he murdered the guy, but he could have murdered a bunch of people, so we should be thankful"
I object to Trump's anti-gun agenda; they say I have TDS. I post links to the anti-gun agenda; they say fake, or that "No one should own guns like those". WTF, right? :)
So, this is what we consider the difference between a "good faith" and a "bad faith" discussion. In a "good faith" discussion there is an understanding that facts and sources matter, and logic should be behind every argument. And also that if you realize you were wrong, you will actually say so. In a "bad faith" discussion it's the opposite and those are a waste of time.
They argue in bad faith. They do it deliberately. If you get mad, they are happy - they get to own the libs. These are people who would burn down their own house if it made life harder for the people putting it out, just because the firefighters are the 'wrong people'.
It's all just owning the libs, all the way down. We can't argue with them, since they will never change their mind. We can only let them fucking burn in the fires they start - and make sure they suffer there alone.
This is why I can’t talk to my dad anymore. He doesn’t live in reality. Everything is a conspiracy and anything to the contrary is fake or a lie. It must be so miserable living like that 24/7.
MAGA, like religion, has the answer first and works backwards to the question from there. They have a world view that they have made their entire identity. Being validated is more important than being right. Hating the "Other" is more important than loving even themselves. The collective is more important than the individual. The haters of identity politics are the ones most prone to engage in them, because "no u" is effectively half their position.
People don't want to admit they have been fooled. And yeah you can come with receipts and point out all the flaws in what they are presenting and all it will get you is yelled at or blocked. Anything but self reflection and improvement.
Speaking as a former republican, I urge people to try. Not at the risk of your stress levels rising, but occasionally. People on the Left constantly providing sources is one of the biggest reasons my eyes were opened. You gotta understand that a lot of us were raised with these beliefs, its baked into the very core of our development. I think it took until around 30 for me to understand how wrong they are. Well trump helped lol, one of the few useful things hes ever done.
The cult's grandparents grew up in the McCarthy era, their parents listened to Rush Limbaugh, and they were homeschooled (i.e. the stupid teaching the stupid-er) so they got little to no contact with different people, especially other races and religions, and no exposure to different ideas. Now they watch Fock Snooze and believe QAnon. They're carefully-bred sheep, incapable of thinking for themselves or analyzing and questioning any of it.
Same here. Raised in a conservative family and voted how my parents did. As an adult I began to question things, but it wasn’t until Trump that I reallzed I was on the wrong side of the fence. It can be uncomfortable to reevaluate your whole belief system. But if I hadn’t had Imgur during that time I don’t know if I would have seen the things I needed to in order to really change. Fox News certainly wasn’t showing me them. They still have my family convinced that the democrats are the bad guys.
It was immensely uncomfortable. I dunno if this makes sense, but it was actually physically painful. But once it started it was like flipping a light switch on and seeing everything around you for the first time
None that I still talk to. I know thats kinda hypocritical, but you gotta understand how they are lol (they're all my siblings). And I know for a fact at least 2 would say that women deserve it or want it.
You got out because you aren't a piece of shit. Anyone who is still a repug Nazi is there on purpose. They all deserve to swing from the rafters. And yes that includes family. At this point, I would rather see my own father hang if it meant my best friend's children grew up safe.
Your supposed to leave a better world for the next generation. And if a guillotine is your only option to make the world better, then by all means, enjoy the blade.
I agree that it's very important to continually leave the escape hatch open and keep tossing rope down. I'm very happy for you, that you could climb out and willingly adjust your perspective to accommodate new info. But I think you're rare. You can't forcibly airlift someone out of a cult, only help them once they've decided to escape. And it *is* a cult, in how it controls critical thinking. In my experience, most people won't poke the mindset change required with a 10ft pole
from my perspective MAGA structurally is a religious cult but with political trappings. This is why it overlaps so heavily with evangelicals. We've seen many videos of people actually praying to Shitstain and invoking his name just like they do with Jesus. The mentality is the same. The in-group/out-group mindset is the same. Fox preaches their gospel and they take it as faith.
Precisely. They both rely on self-delusion and the underlying emotional need. If the emotional need didn't demand satisfaction, the self-delusion wouldn't exist and neither would religion or MAGA.
Maybe your reality should include doing something about the problem instead of just pasting old quotes as a comment and thinking you're witty? You're running out of time to stop them from ending whatever you think your reality is and imposing their reality on you.
Donfolstar
Then, even if you do win that exhausting exchange, it means nothing. Facts, morality, the law, etc... all mean nothing to them. The only languages they speak are power and violence. We are not getting out of this chapter of history easily.
NinjablazerZero
This is not unique to maga. Debate bros operate this way on the left as well.
It's easy to pick out this behavior in maga because they are so stupid, but all the "debate me, debate me, debate me," types are they same. They are just capable of sounding like what dumb people think a smart person sounds like.
You are not immune to propaganda.
getoffmycloud
does whining about it on the internet help?
Resistance1000
There's virtually no point in trying to argue with or deprogram a hard-core MAGA cultist, but the few remaining moderate Republicans might possibly be rescued. If it's just impossible for them to vote Blue after a lifetime of hearing Dems are the most evil thing ever, then ask them to just sit this one out and not vote at all. They might be willing to do that. Even if they're hoping for "real Republicans" to one day return, by not voting MAGA again, they're still helping get rid of tRump.
SavageDrums
That's why I just call them idiots and do my best to make them cry.
SocoFox
Most of them online are NPCs. Bots, foreign accounts, grifters... They all parrot the same bullshit. And even if you come across someone who *might* be real, they're still just a bot since they are just parrots. Bad faith arguments.
Don't argue with people John Brown would have shot.
Neterim
Although not to this extent, they way we all feel towards MAGA in term of arguing with them is the same I have felt toward most Christians I've met even as a kid. Didn't feel safe nor did I feel like I could discuss or be vulnerable with them
colderfish
what's crazy is that they actually do, on occassion, accept a fact, but then they just accept it and say it's OK. Like, "he never murdered anyone" and then "well, it's all a ploy", then "Well, you've murdered too, but he had good reason and you're a murdere", then "well, he murdered the guy, but he could have murdered a bunch of people, so we should be thankful"
brosnan89
Make America Gay Again https://dickbutt.pics/gay-pride-rainbow.html
Ranb40
I object to Trump's anti-gun agenda; they say I have TDS. I post links to the anti-gun agenda; they say fake, or that "No one should own guns like those". WTF, right? :)
variantXer0
There’s no reason to argue with faschists of any persuasion.
Burke616
There's no h in fascist.
littlespooner
It's exactly like trying to argue with a religious extremist. 1 to 1.
BrokenAnimal
So, this is what we consider the difference between a "good faith" and a "bad faith" discussion.
In a "good faith" discussion there is an understanding that facts and sources matter, and logic should be behind every argument. And also that if you realize you were wrong, you will actually say so.
In a "bad faith" discussion it's the opposite and those are a waste of time.
RanOutofWit
They argue in bad faith. They do it deliberately. If you get mad, they are happy - they get to own the libs. These are people who would burn down their own house if it made life harder for the people putting it out, just because the firefighters are the 'wrong people'.
It's all just owning the libs, all the way down. We can't argue with them, since they will never change their mind. We can only let them fucking burn in the fires they start - and make sure they suffer there alone.
ChiLLeCheeze
That's why you don't get mad. Make them mad instead. They are almost always people with a big ego and even bigger feelings.
Snooj
You can't win wrestling with a pig in mud because all you find out is that you're getting dirty and the pig likes it.
Nanntuckett
This is why I can’t talk to my dad anymore. He doesn’t live in reality. Everything is a conspiracy and anything to the contrary is fake or a lie. It must be so miserable living like that 24/7.
hsalonen3000
They will also not provide any sources themselves. You first. And then they start arguing about your sources.
509tigerfish
tinyfootprints
That's kind of like trying to tell a psychotic narcissist that they are a narcissist. Evidence simply doesn't matter.
PcJunky
About 8 years into the post factual age, someone spells it out again.
bspurgeon5150
Soooo, they’re a RELIGIOUS cult. Sure as fuck sounds like the god debate to me
icantbelieveistillhavetoprotestthiscrap
They're definitely a religious cult, and the religion is zionism.
Whatwhatsomethingbutt
You can't logic a person out of a position they didn't logic themselves into.
contextisimportant
When they ask for proof they ask for “change my feelings and believe”. For emotions that fit to them.
CPTBRUMBL3Z
MAGA, like religion, has the answer first and works backwards to the question from there. They have a world view that they have made their entire identity. Being validated is more important than being right. Hating the "Other" is more important than loving even themselves. The collective is more important than the individual. The haters of identity politics are the ones most prone to engage in them, because "no u" is effectively half their position.
Resistance1000
Sebastopol140
That's why they love generative AI, because it makes people doubt what's real.
IMakeLotsOfReferencesAndRemakes
People don't want to admit they have been fooled. And yeah you can come with receipts and point out all the flaws in what they are presenting and all it will get you is yelled at or blocked. Anything but self reflection and improvement.
DeadeicPrints
Speaking as a former republican, I urge people to try. Not at the risk of your stress levels rising, but occasionally. People on the Left constantly providing sources is one of the biggest reasons my eyes were opened. You gotta understand that a lot of us were raised with these beliefs, its baked into the very core of our development. I think it took until around 30 for me to understand how wrong they are. Well trump helped lol, one of the few useful things hes ever done.
Resistance1000
The cult's grandparents grew up in the McCarthy era, their parents listened to Rush Limbaugh, and they were homeschooled (i.e. the stupid teaching the stupid-er) so they got little to no contact with different people, especially other races and religions, and no exposure to different ideas. Now they watch Fock Snooze and believe QAnon. They're carefully-bred sheep, incapable of thinking for themselves or analyzing and questioning any of it.
keys79
Same here. Raised in a conservative family and voted how my parents did. As an adult I began to question things, but it wasn’t until Trump that I reallzed I was on the wrong side of the fence. It can be uncomfortable to reevaluate your whole belief system. But if I hadn’t had Imgur during that time I don’t know if I would have seen the things I needed to in order to really change. Fox News certainly wasn’t showing me them. They still have my family convinced that the democrats are the bad guys.
DeadeicPrints
It was immensely uncomfortable. I dunno if this makes sense, but it was actually physically painful. But once it started it was like flipping a light switch on and seeing everything around you for the first time
CraftyGiant
do you still know republicans? will you show them this video of trump confessing to rape in court?
DeadeicPrints
None that I still talk to. I know thats kinda hypocritical, but you gotta understand how they are lol (they're all my siblings). And I know for a fact at least 2 would say that women deserve it or want it.
CraftyGiant
Fair enough, I don't talk to my uncle anymore, no point.
DeadeicPrints
I will also empathize, "urge you to try." Changing their minds and educating them is not your personal responsibility, and I do understand that.
Zalm
You got out because you aren't a piece of shit. Anyone who is still a repug Nazi is there on purpose. They all deserve to swing from the rafters. And yes that includes family. At this point, I would rather see my own father hang if it meant my best friend's children grew up safe.
Your supposed to leave a better world for the next generation. And if a guillotine is your only option to make the world better, then by all means, enjoy the blade.
QuiMoritur
I agree that it's very important to continually leave the escape hatch open and keep tossing rope down. I'm very happy for you, that you could climb out and willingly adjust your perspective to accommodate new info.
But I think you're rare. You can't forcibly airlift someone out of a cult, only help them once they've decided to escape. And it *is* a cult, in how it controls critical thinking. In my experience, most people won't poke the mindset change required with a 10ft pole
DeadeicPrints
I hope it doesnt stay rare.
VulcanTourist
It's called self-delusion. Religion may have the copyright on it going back millennia, but they certainly licensed it to MAGA.
Nim449
from my perspective MAGA structurally is a religious cult but with political trappings. This is why it overlaps so heavily with evangelicals. We've seen many videos of people actually praying to Shitstain and invoking his name just like they do with Jesus. The mentality is the same. The in-group/out-group mindset is the same. Fox preaches their gospel and they take it as faith.
VulcanTourist
Precisely. They both rely on self-delusion and the underlying emotional need. If the emotional need didn't demand satisfaction, the self-delusion wouldn't exist and neither would religion or MAGA.
Resistance1000
BigIrv5151
I reject your reality and substitute my own.
Sebastopol140
Are you missing an eyebrow?
Resistance1000
Maybe your reality should include doing something about the problem instead of just pasting old quotes as a comment and thinking you're witty? You're running out of time to stop them from ending whatever you think your reality is and imposing their reality on you.
BigIrv5151
Want some cheese with that whine?