Lesson: wait till after the date

Apr 24, 2017 12:09 AM

Never order anything you couldn't afford to pay on your own

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Gold digging whore

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 8

I mean, I'd go by 'you pay for your shit' on a date unless you're buying for the other.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No normal woman would bring something up like that before dinner.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Isn't it normal that both pay sometimes for dinner? For me it is.

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I wonder how many times waiters/waitresses hear something like this.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thats what you get for making assumptions.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shouldn't have ordered the lobster

9 years ago | Likes 335 Dislikes 3

Or the 6 margaritas.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

No more free dinners, fuck..

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is pathetic.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

@ISeeNipples

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

whether this was justifiable would depend on the way she had made it clear they were just friends, as a way that would make them not frie

9 years ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 13

It's justifiable regardless.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

..d chicken riding a unicorn into the sunset after binge drinking during a thirsty Thursday frat party twister session

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

nds

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

everyone is discussing this as though its a thing that happened even though it clearly didn't and OP doesn't understand how life works

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Wait... You have to justify not paying for someone else's dinner? Wtf?

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Justify the way he said it, not the payment itself.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Solution: never expect the dude to pay. And if he does then that's a nice surprise, but always plan to be independent.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 4

Weird, my girlfriend has always insisted on paying her half. I must be doing it wrong.

9 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 4

I do the same thing. Personally I think it's polite to AT LEAST offer. Or even offer to cover the tip!

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

My girlfriend always gets the tip. And just the tip.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well that's all there is soooo...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

HA

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

If you call someone to bring you toilet paper, don't expect them to wipe your ass. Same goes for asking someone out for a meal, you pay!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Why the FUCK does this neckbeard friend-zone bullshit for fake situations always get to FP?

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 12

The same reason your anger gives you upvotes. People relate to it. Now hop off the high horse and join us in the not caring booth.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

Yes. I'd like a seat in the no caring booth

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Check out the "Turning 25 and still a virgin" post at the front page. This site is filled with neckbearded virgins.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Bc this site is chock full of misogynists & angry virgins

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 7

I feel like the misogyny is getting worse and worse all the time

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 5

Also, cause there are women who only "date" guys for the meals provided. Think for like 10 seconds and you can answer your own questions

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

There are some, yes. But this site goes off like most women are like that, which is BS.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Fair. But most woman are shit. Scratch that. Most people are shit. It entirely depends on where you live, your age group, etc

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Kids.. it's polite for the man to offer to pay this is how Western society works. This isn't a sjw issue. This is juvenile neckbeard shit

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 9

This is how advancement works. No one has to follow traditional roles because they are tradition. Refusing societal advancement is dumb.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I think it's polite for the woman to get to know me as a person of equal value instead of one that has to compensate by buying her stuff.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's polite for anyone to pay for anybody. It's *tradition* for men to pay. And if feminism wants to do away with traditional gender roles,

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

then men are under no obligation to pay for anything anymore. Funny how that works.

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I never understand the weird transactional model most Americans use for dating. If that's your thing, why not pay a sex worker?

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Because for some Reason that's illegal. Ever though it could be a regulated and taxed industry, like elsewhere in the world

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No, it's not a transaction... It's just a romantic gesture on the first date.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 6

Romance is futile

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

Crazy thought! You date a woman who makes her own money and you don't turn romance into a transaction.

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And ruin the power dynamic between the sexes?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My girl makes a bit less than me and has more bills i often insist on picking up the check on stuff, she definitely pays for some stuff tho

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Next you'll be asking for evidence based policy you crazy person

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Me n my boyfriend

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You always offer to pay, the trick is that the woman should say no. It's a test to gauge people's personality. I pay for dinner, sex or bust

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

She turns down the offer to pay for dinner, I suddenly don't give a shit about sex at the end of the night.

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I don't think the dudes who post this stuff actually date any women, employed or not.

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Nah, it's bad experiences with lying gold diggers that fuel this type of shitposting.

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Probably more like they saw a comedian on TV complaining about lying gold diggers and tried to imitate him.

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There it is

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70% of imgur right there

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9 years ago (deleted Sep 25, 2017 2:26 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

My girlfriend and I paid for our own meals on first date, since then we have paid for each other numerous times and paid for ourselves

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Numerous times as well. If a woman expects to be only paid for and not to come tribute that's probably a red flag.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

You are dating shit girls.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

*.* of them

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Paying for a dinner isn't a transaction for romance. It's just a gentlemanly thing to do on the 1st date.

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It's nice to pay for someone else's meal of course, but it would be equally nice if she payed for you! Spoil each other and don't keep score

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

That doesn't conflict with anything I'm saying...

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

Well, the 'gentlemanly' thing seems quite slated in favor of the woman, it's not just the polite thing to do. Is it gentlemanly to let the

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well man pay for the guy in addition to her own? I think what the other commenters are getting at is that it is one sided, even if it is

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I don't try to be a "gentleman" ill settle for being a polite and caring person.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Same thing... You're just mincing words now.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 6

men and women can never just be friends, sex gets in the way of that shit....

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That absolutely isn't true, and I feel bad for those who are too immature/horny to have platonic relationships.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Nah, i have female friends that i am close too, would bang if given the chance but not actively trying for them. Not that hard

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

you must be a girl... no guy would disagree with this (unless he was in front of a girl)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 11

Yes, hello. I am a guy. I agree with this. Single by the way. You are too immature if you can't just be friends with girl.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

not immature but a realist... sex will always get in the way of a platonic relationship. It just doesn't work. (Guy and Married 20+ years)

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you are a very immature

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