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princesscatloverooolala
Never order anything you couldn't afford to pay on your own
Lakachican
Gold digging whore
GadenKerensky
I mean, I'd go by 'you pay for your shit' on a date unless you're buying for the other.
wonder89
No normal woman would bring something up like that before dinner.
andzik
Isn't it normal that both pay sometimes for dinner? For me it is.
NZSheeps
I wonder how many times waiters/waitresses hear something like this.
Zergele
Thats what you get for making assumptions.
screamo
Shouldn't have ordered the lobster
Gasnia
Or the 6 margaritas.
StylexP
No more free dinners, fuck..
IWishIWereNotAllergicToCats
This is pathetic.
kingsRooktakesQueen
@ISeeNipples
DerangedMoosh
whether this was justifiable would depend on the way she had made it clear they were just friends, as a way that would make them not frie
ilikethechristianlife
It's justifiable regardless.
GdSvThQn
s
grandallbiognome
..d chicken riding a unicorn into the sunset after binge drinking during a thirsty Thursday frat party twister session
5xAcademyAwardWinnerKirkLazarus
nds
aleister94
everyone is discussing this as though its a thing that happened even though it clearly didn't and OP doesn't understand how life works
pronoun
Wait... You have to justify not paying for someone else's dinner? Wtf?
Justify the way he said it, not the payment itself.
What?
pikzee
Solution: never expect the dude to pay. And if he does then that's a nice surprise, but always plan to be independent.
ec437
Weird, my girlfriend has always insisted on paying her half. I must be doing it wrong.
wrecklaw
I do the same thing. Personally I think it's polite to AT LEAST offer. Or even offer to cover the tip!
Alavar
My girlfriend always gets the tip. And just the tip.
TheOfficialBuzzKillington
Well that's all there is soooo...
QuickiesAllDay
HA
Dissipo
If you call someone to bring you toilet paper, don't expect them to wipe your ass. Same goes for asking someone out for a meal, you pay!
TallDude
Why the FUCK does this neckbeard friend-zone bullshit for fake situations always get to FP?
TheImperiumOfMankind
The same reason your anger gives you upvotes. People relate to it. Now hop off the high horse and join us in the not caring booth.
RailGunToTheNuts
Yes. I'd like a seat in the no caring booth
WhatIsThisImgurIHearAbout
Check out the "Turning 25 and still a virgin" post at the front page. This site is filled with neckbearded virgins.
invisobill42
Bc this site is chock full of misogynists & angry virgins
BerthaMasonIsInMyAttic
I feel like the misogyny is getting worse and worse all the time
Also, cause there are women who only "date" guys for the meals provided. Think for like 10 seconds and you can answer your own questions
There are some, yes. But this site goes off like most women are like that, which is BS.
Fair. But most woman are shit. Scratch that. Most people are shit. It entirely depends on where you live, your age group, etc
Dipshitjuice
SamRi32
Kids.. it's polite for the man to offer to pay this is how Western society works. This isn't a sjw issue. This is juvenile neckbeard shit
This is how advancement works. No one has to follow traditional roles because they are tradition. Refusing societal advancement is dumb.
CatnipPhilosophy
I think it's polite for the woman to get to know me as a person of equal value instead of one that has to compensate by buying her stuff.
charizardwasdecent
It's polite for anyone to pay for anybody. It's *tradition* for men to pay. And if feminism wants to do away with traditional gender roles,
then men are under no obligation to pay for anything anymore. Funny how that works.
KoreanAmericanGunslinger
millicentfrastley
I never understand the weird transactional model most Americans use for dating. If that's your thing, why not pay a sex worker?
Because for some Reason that's illegal. Ever though it could be a regulated and taxed industry, like elsewhere in the world
No, it's not a transaction... It's just a romantic gesture on the first date.
Xorism
Romance is futile
Drosophilamelanobastard
Crazy thought! You date a woman who makes her own money and you don't turn romance into a transaction.
howuuuuudoin
And ruin the power dynamic between the sexes?
youremindmeofthebabewhatbabe
My girl makes a bit less than me and has more bills i often insist on picking up the check on stuff, she definitely pays for some stuff tho
Twillo
Next you'll be asking for evidence based policy you crazy person
airen
Me n my boyfriend
seemetrollinh8in
You always offer to pay, the trick is that the woman should say no. It's a test to gauge people's personality. I pay for dinner, sex or bust
She turns down the offer to pay for dinner, I suddenly don't give a shit about sex at the end of the night.
storebrandproductmascot
I don't think the dudes who post this stuff actually date any women, employed or not.
Nah, it's bad experiences with lying gold diggers that fuel this type of shitposting.
Probably more like they saw a comedian on TV complaining about lying gold diggers and tried to imitate him.
TheManFromNoland
There it is
Falsie
70% of imgur right there
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ForgotMyOtherAcct
My girlfriend and I paid for our own meals on first date, since then we have paid for each other numerous times and paid for ourselves
Numerous times as well. If a woman expects to be only paid for and not to come tribute that's probably a red flag.
UsuallySpecial
You are dating shit girls.
LittleKnownOne
*.* of them
Paying for a dinner isn't a transaction for romance. It's just a gentlemanly thing to do on the 1st date.
It's nice to pay for someone else's meal of course, but it would be equally nice if she payed for you! Spoil each other and don't keep score
That doesn't conflict with anything I'm saying...
Well, the 'gentlemanly' thing seems quite slated in favor of the woman, it's not just the polite thing to do. Is it gentlemanly to let the
Well man pay for the guy in addition to her own? I think what the other commenters are getting at is that it is one sided, even if it is
I don't try to be a "gentleman" ill settle for being a polite and caring person.
Same thing... You're just mincing words now.
protostars
men and women can never just be friends, sex gets in the way of that shit....
annaZon
That absolutely isn't true, and I feel bad for those who are too immature/horny to have platonic relationships.
Nah, i have female friends that i am close too, would bang if given the chance but not actively trying for them. Not that hard
you must be a girl... no guy would disagree with this (unless he was in front of a girl)
Danmanbadman
Yes, hello. I am a guy. I agree with this. Single by the way. You are too immature if you can't just be friends with girl.
not immature but a realist... sex will always get in the way of a platonic relationship. It just doesn't work. (Guy and Married 20+ years)
Horseymcfaceyface
you are a very immature
princesscatloverooolala
Never order anything you couldn't afford to pay on your own
Lakachican
Gold digging whore
GadenKerensky
I mean, I'd go by 'you pay for your shit' on a date unless you're buying for the other.
wonder89
No normal woman would bring something up like that before dinner.
andzik
Isn't it normal that both pay sometimes for dinner? For me it is.
NZSheeps
I wonder how many times waiters/waitresses hear something like this.
Zergele
Thats what you get for making assumptions.
screamo
Shouldn't have ordered the lobster
Gasnia
Or the 6 margaritas.
StylexP
No more free dinners, fuck..
IWishIWereNotAllergicToCats
This is pathetic.
kingsRooktakesQueen
@ISeeNipples
DerangedMoosh
whether this was justifiable would depend on the way she had made it clear they were just friends, as a way that would make them not frie
ilikethechristianlife
It's justifiable regardless.
GdSvThQn
s
grandallbiognome
..d chicken riding a unicorn into the sunset after binge drinking during a thirsty Thursday frat party twister session
5xAcademyAwardWinnerKirkLazarus
nds
aleister94
everyone is discussing this as though its a thing that happened even though it clearly didn't and OP doesn't understand how life works
pronoun
Wait... You have to justify not paying for someone else's dinner? Wtf?
DerangedMoosh
Justify the way he said it, not the payment itself.
pronoun
What?
pikzee
Solution: never expect the dude to pay. And if he does then that's a nice surprise, but always plan to be independent.
ec437
Weird, my girlfriend has always insisted on paying her half. I must be doing it wrong.
wrecklaw
I do the same thing. Personally I think it's polite to AT LEAST offer. Or even offer to cover the tip!
Alavar
My girlfriend always gets the tip. And just the tip.
TheOfficialBuzzKillington
Well that's all there is soooo...
QuickiesAllDay
HA
Dissipo
If you call someone to bring you toilet paper, don't expect them to wipe your ass. Same goes for asking someone out for a meal, you pay!
TallDude
Why the FUCK does this neckbeard friend-zone bullshit for fake situations always get to FP?
TheImperiumOfMankind
The same reason your anger gives you upvotes. People relate to it. Now hop off the high horse and join us in the not caring booth.
RailGunToTheNuts
Yes. I'd like a seat in the no caring booth
WhatIsThisImgurIHearAbout
Check out the "Turning 25 and still a virgin" post at the front page. This site is filled with neckbearded virgins.
invisobill42
Bc this site is chock full of misogynists & angry virgins
BerthaMasonIsInMyAttic
I feel like the misogyny is getting worse and worse all the time
TheImperiumOfMankind
Also, cause there are women who only "date" guys for the meals provided. Think for like 10 seconds and you can answer your own questions
TallDude
There are some, yes. But this site goes off like most women are like that, which is BS.
TheImperiumOfMankind
Fair. But most woman are shit. Scratch that. Most people are shit. It entirely depends on where you live, your age group, etc
Dipshitjuice
SamRi32
Kids.. it's polite for the man to offer to pay this is how Western society works. This isn't a sjw issue. This is juvenile neckbeard shit
TheImperiumOfMankind
This is how advancement works. No one has to follow traditional roles because they are tradition. Refusing societal advancement is dumb.
CatnipPhilosophy
I think it's polite for the woman to get to know me as a person of equal value instead of one that has to compensate by buying her stuff.
charizardwasdecent
It's polite for anyone to pay for anybody. It's *tradition* for men to pay. And if feminism wants to do away with traditional gender roles,
charizardwasdecent
then men are under no obligation to pay for anything anymore. Funny how that works.
KoreanAmericanGunslinger
millicentfrastley
I never understand the weird transactional model most Americans use for dating. If that's your thing, why not pay a sex worker?
RailGunToTheNuts
Because for some Reason that's illegal. Ever though it could be a regulated and taxed industry, like elsewhere in the world
pronoun
No, it's not a transaction... It's just a romantic gesture on the first date.
Xorism
Romance is futile
Drosophilamelanobastard
Crazy thought! You date a woman who makes her own money and you don't turn romance into a transaction.
howuuuuudoin
And ruin the power dynamic between the sexes?
youremindmeofthebabewhatbabe
My girl makes a bit less than me and has more bills i often insist on picking up the check on stuff, she definitely pays for some stuff tho
Twillo
Next you'll be asking for evidence based policy you crazy person
airen
Me n my boyfriend
seemetrollinh8in
You always offer to pay, the trick is that the woman should say no. It's a test to gauge people's personality. I pay for dinner, sex or bust
seemetrollinh8in
She turns down the offer to pay for dinner, I suddenly don't give a shit about sex at the end of the night.
storebrandproductmascot
I don't think the dudes who post this stuff actually date any women, employed or not.
pronoun
Nah, it's bad experiences with lying gold diggers that fuel this type of shitposting.
storebrandproductmascot
Probably more like they saw a comedian on TV complaining about lying gold diggers and tried to imitate him.
TheManFromNoland
There it is
Falsie
70% of imgur right there
[deleted]
[deleted]
ForgotMyOtherAcct
My girlfriend and I paid for our own meals on first date, since then we have paid for each other numerous times and paid for ourselves
ForgotMyOtherAcct
Numerous times as well. If a woman expects to be only paid for and not to come tribute that's probably a red flag.
UsuallySpecial
You are dating shit girls.
LittleKnownOne
*.* of them
pronoun
Paying for a dinner isn't a transaction for romance. It's just a gentlemanly thing to do on the 1st date.
Drosophilamelanobastard
It's nice to pay for someone else's meal of course, but it would be equally nice if she payed for you! Spoil each other and don't keep score
pronoun
That doesn't conflict with anything I'm saying...
ForgotMyOtherAcct
Well, the 'gentlemanly' thing seems quite slated in favor of the woman, it's not just the polite thing to do. Is it gentlemanly to let the
ForgotMyOtherAcct
Well man pay for the guy in addition to her own? I think what the other commenters are getting at is that it is one sided, even if it is
Drosophilamelanobastard
I don't try to be a "gentleman" ill settle for being a polite and caring person.
pronoun
Same thing... You're just mincing words now.
protostars
men and women can never just be friends, sex gets in the way of that shit....
annaZon
That absolutely isn't true, and I feel bad for those who are too immature/horny to have platonic relationships.
TheImperiumOfMankind
Nah, i have female friends that i am close too, would bang if given the chance but not actively trying for them. Not that hard
protostars
you must be a girl... no guy would disagree with this (unless he was in front of a girl)
Danmanbadman
Yes, hello. I am a guy. I agree with this. Single by the way. You are too immature if you can't just be friends with girl.
protostars
not immature but a realist... sex will always get in the way of a platonic relationship. It just doesn't work. (Guy and Married 20+ years)
Horseymcfaceyface
you are a very immature