Close to midlife crisis?

May 14, 2021 6:41 PM

ka19tet

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I started my proper life at 33. Quit the job. Travelled the world. 56 now. You do you. It's the most important thing.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You should do anything you want! And good luck with the projects!!

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I'm 43 and you had me motivated until that fool part. I know a guy that finally went on tour with his band late 40s, had a blast. You do you

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Best bassist I ever worked with joined the band at 36. Rock on, @OP!

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Lololololololololol!!!! 33???? Old??? You know how much shit I’ve learned since I was 33? I wish I could go back. You have so much time!

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

33.....wtf are you taking about, just enjoy life you boob

5 years ago | Likes 119 Dislikes 0

Just enjoy boob, you life

5 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

This is the way

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

My parents always like to remind me that Harrison Ford was a 30-year-old carpenter when he was cast as Han Solo. Do what you want to do.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Imposter syndrome. It will pass. Fake it till you make it

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

33? Old? GTFO

5 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 0

Julius Caesar was in his 30s when he established the Roman empire, Don't let anyone tell you greatness is a youngster's game

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Nope. I didn't feel like an adult till 40 and am still growing in my 50s and I'm doing badass shit finally. You go! Lose that nonsense. Go!!

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Colonel sanders started kfc at 65, you are still just a Bebe

5 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

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5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

33 isn't old @OP. And you are never too old to get new hobby's.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm 34 fuck you for having your life together while I'm just sitting here. Also congrats

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm sitting with you, if that's okay

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Got plenty of comfortable seats and I carry snacks everywhere I go. Wanna fruit by the foot?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Never heard of it before, but I'm all in, bringing my snacks along so we can mix

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shut up. And do all those things.

5 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

33 ? Old ? You're still wet behind the ears.

5 years ago | Likes 375 Dislikes 3

TIL

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I dont know what that means

5 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

Young, it means young.

5 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 0

Still wet from being birthed.

5 years ago | Likes 59 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Thank

5 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

How is 33 old? Fuck you, I'm 35 and I do what the fuck I want and so should you! Old, my ass

5 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 2

Uhm, I'm 28 and just got a promotion in a stable company. Can we switch?

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Why the hell not? There's no time limit on passion!

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Don't you know that 30 is the new 20? So by that you are technically 23! Whoo!

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I'm old and watch animation and anime. Anime expanded to greater appreciation of other things related to Japan. 1/

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I go to anime conventions without a second thought. Don't let thoughts of your age (or other people) define your boundaries. 2/

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I just tell myself that Lemmy didn't start Motorhead until 30.

5 years ago | Likes 589 Dislikes 2

Want to read his book

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Roy Orbison was in his 50s when he started singing with the Traveling Wilburys

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

You know he was a musician long before that, right?

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Lol and that Paul McCartney geezer wasn’t discovered by Kanye. Get outta here.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That is one of best Motivational comments ive ever read

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The guys in Godsmack were late 20’s and into their 30’s if I remember correctly.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

until then he was just messing about with Hawkwind. before that he was Jimi Hendrix's roadie.

5 years ago | Likes 60 Dislikes 0

Somewhere in between, Sam Gopal.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also his supplier of acid

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Probably still is, again.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My dear, you have no idea of old. Don't limit yourself. I started paramedic school at 59, at 61 I'm getting ready for my first ambulance

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

That's awesome good for you !!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thanks

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

33's not old, that's about the first time in your life you actually know who you are.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Rock on, granny! JK, I’m significantly older than you and still feel like I’m in my 20’s. It’s just a number.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Just wait till you're 45....30s aint shit! You go! @OP

5 years ago | Likes 174 Dislikes 4

I just turned 45. I’ve learned and done more new things in the past year than in the previous 44. Fuck feeling old.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shit, I'll be 66 next month, yall a buncha kids!!

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

45? Wait until you’re 66...

5 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 1

OH YEAH WAIT TILL YOU'RE 504!

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I can't wait until I'm 504

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's not an age its an order.

5 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

Got me in the feels

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I have so much respect for the older surfers I see when Im out...dudes from 55-70...Never understood commitment till I actually felt pain.

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

56 here, never too late

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What kind of music does your band play?

5 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

New wave east European reggae metal.

5 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 2

Skindred?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Oh, I only listen to Norwegian Prog Gothpunk.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Have you heard the new band from Sicily? The do this cool rap/ yodeling fusion. The bassist is a plate of mozzarella sticks

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

90’s rock stuff. Mostly covering stuff right now. We are all very new lol

5 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

Please play Cannonball by the Breeders. Fuckin love 90’s chick rock.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

just start playing in the music scene. find the venues and you find yourself. when they come back of course

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Good stuff the 90s :) also, aren't you glad you have friends AND are talented enough to be in a band!

5 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Do Maxwell Murder! That’s 90’s, right?

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Awesome. Some of my best memories are making music with friends. Enjoy!

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Do you have famous bass players that you follow and practice their style? When you're famous you can tag them as influences.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That was the peak of music.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do Black Hole Sun. DO BLACK HOLE SUN!

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Red hot chili peppers? <3

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Idk who would downvote rhcp

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Okay so I feel a million times better about my life decisions now. You guys are so dope

5 years ago | Likes 865 Dislikes 7

Keep kicking ass and living life!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I am a 34 yr old Male bassist without a band who is also writing a novel. Just remember, bassists never get the girl.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You had no business doing these things UNTIL NOW. Now, you're ready.

5 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

This! I'll be 33 in a month and I just feel like I'm figuring shit out and getting things 'on track' and moving where I want to be.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good. Just gonout there and do whatever. Have fun. Just keep it within the law.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm turning 33 in July, just picked up my guitar again, and got a drum set . Shiiiiiiit

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Says the novelist in a band

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My 47 year old flatmate Just got his law degree and permission to act. Life's all you want out of it.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I went back to study at 31, and started a career in the theatre at 35. 20 years later, I sold up and moved to Vietnam. I also raised 4 kids!

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If anyone says you're old, say something clever but devastating, then discombobulate.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I've got an interview next week for a job that is 20k a year less to work for a company I've loved since i was a kid. I would never have 1/2

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

this opportunity if i hadn't stuck with my career all through my 20's and 30's. 1st half of your life is so you can enjoy the 2nd half :)

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your life sounds dope. Also, prepare for all the "useless bassist" jokes. Drummers think they're comedians.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Im 41 and I've just started learning Digital art and sculpting. Relax, you've got this @ka19tet

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm basically 30 and I'm pursuing a bachelor's (finally). Never too late to learn to love life.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We're the same age and let me say....im jealous!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My father is nearly 70 and just bought a PS4.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Listen. A kick ass lady I knew once, decided to do a 1 woman show at 75 after never being on stage in her life. She sold out every night.

5 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Are there youtube videos of her?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not that I know of

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You're the same age I was when I started my first novel. I'm now 37 and am working on my 4th. If I'd started sooner, it wouldn't be as good.

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Nah, you're dope.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm 43 and please please please follow all your hearts whims, I have and I'm in such a good place in mid life compared to some x

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

All it took was confirmation from complete strangers from around the world. Pro tip, just do you and don't care what other ppl think.

5 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

I'm 35, a woman and in a band as well. Watch your back with those amps and rock on, girl!!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

@op you know some of us now expect you to film and post your band playing something, right? I wanna watch and tell you how cool you are.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

33 is really not old at the moment even if it was, doing what you like and love is priceless

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You're my hero.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The guy who first climbed Everest started climbing mountains when he was mid thirties with no prior experience at all you got this

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

33, just about to quit my depressing bank job to make video games, been getting back into drawing and writing. Do what brings you joy :)

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You are never too old to do what makes you happy. Unless its rock climbing and you're like 95 or something, then maybe stick to paved trails

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

my dad’s 59 and I’m helping him write his first album, there’s no such thing as too late

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I feel like my life began last year at 32. I’m 33 and exploring all the fiber crafts, yoga, rollerblading. I was kind of boring in my 20s.

5 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Have you gotten to Naalbinding yet?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I hadn’t heard of that one, interesting! Thank you for sharing! The google search sent me down a rabbit hole of tutorials. :)

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You're welome. :)

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This! My hobbies in my 20's was getting drunk, smoking pot and Poppin out babies (not at the same time).

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I feel like the first two might have led to the third, though.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As someone turning 32 tomorrow, thanks for this!

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Same. 38 learning to sew and embroider so I can cosplay.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Cool! - sincerily, a fellow textile/fiber crafts hobbyist

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Do you need groupies?

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Go check out Miracle of Sound's history, it'll probably reinforce that feeling.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good—now have fun!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I’m 33 and say good for you! I’m working a job I hate & chasing a toddler (who I love) as my full time hobby. Enjoy yourself!!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'll add, I'm 36 and about to publish my first novel. So go you.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I am 42 and just bought a skateboard so there is that.

5 years ago | Likes 92 Dislikes 0

Do a kick flip!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

I wish I was as cool as Steve.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Ankle strengthening exercises please!

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I generally ride ~75 miles a week on a full suspension mountain bike in the PNW. The ankles are great, being schooled by my kids, priceless.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nice!

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Were your knees too healthy and you wanted to punish them?

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I am healing and getting pads for sure, the one time I rode in shorts.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

33 isn't old and punch anyone telling you different.

5 years ago | Likes 2270 Dislikes 6

Hell I’ll punch them for you if you do not wish to do violence

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thank you

5 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

This bird is a band leader, age is irrelevant

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

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5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

You’re half my age, kiddo. You’ve got this

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

My 42 year old self who is learning flute at the same time as his daughter says fuck yeah! Get it girl.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

i started doing comedy at 32. thirties are the good times

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Seriously read these comments and stay happy

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Don't listen to this old person. You'll wind up punching children.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Until you're dead, you can start doing anything.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

FALCOOOWWWNN PAAAUUUNNNCCHHH

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm 33 and pissed and high and I needed to hear this thankyou hope you're well

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Can you tell me 36 isn’t old too? Just kinda wanna have someone else say it other than my timid self conscious.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

You're not old until you reach the 50 mark, and even then you're not THAT old.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Im 40 about to try and start my own business after being laid off last year, moving to a new city, new house, everything.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

36 isn't too old for anything! Have at it. So long as it's not an under 9s wrestling match, almost everything else is still on the table.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

But seriously if you've got hopes and dreams go give em a tickle, bollocks to the number and see what can be. 33 and in the same boat.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Assuming you will be 90, you are not even in your mid life

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

With a few important exceptions, age has no meaning. Neither of these things are one of those exceptions.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't expect to live to 70 so it's about time I had a midlife crisis.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Go for it!!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yep, I'm a 32 year old female gamer. I get shit from people online sometimes but that'll never stop me!

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

This wouldn't have worked out well for when I worked at an elementary school full of kids that like to call all adults old.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well Jesus died at that age... thoug I guess 33 was beyond the average life expectancy back then

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tell that to my…everything. As soon as you get over 30, everything cracks, creaks, or hurts.

5 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 5

Adds flavor to everything you do.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thats just the begining...at least the hurts go away/shift...they really settle in in the mid-late 40s and then thats all you talk about...

5 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

You’ve given me so much to live for.

5 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Getting old ain’t for pussies

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

But what if someone likes old pussy?

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm in my mid 30s and in some of the best shape of my life, through your 40s you should be able to maintain a fairly high level of fitness->

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

That does mean taking good care of your body and injuries have to be cared for, not just ignored.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

*laughs in age 49*

5 years ago | Likes 192 Dislikes 0

Dude you've existed for nearly half a century. To a dog, you've lived an unreasonable and insane amount of years, dogs look at you the way-/

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Humans look at elves in lotr. That's quite the accomplishment. \-

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Oh I'm only 43. . .I'll get off your lawn

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I'm only 28.... I'll leave the neighborhood?

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

20 more years till the best age.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Still have 50 years to keep laughing if ur lucky

5 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

What a terrifying thought.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*cries in 44*

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Yeah I've seen 90 year olds. No fucking thanks.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

This. Everyone wants to get old but nobody wants to *be* it

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You cant just go to physical violence. Insult them personally and then punch them.

5 years ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 1

Yeah. Then kick while their down

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is why one handed weapons are brilliant. Always a free hand for rude gestures

5 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Inigo my friend, it's been too long!

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