When you're a single woman getting back on to fetlife after a few years

Jul 26, 2026 6:03 AM

Omnislash9

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I imagine that's true pretty much everywhere.

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God damn billionaires hitting on girls by throwing hot dogs. I wish rich sugar mommas would do that to me

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Jesus Christ, Fetlife still exists?

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Oh it sure does lol

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😂

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Fun fact, that woman (Lindsay Ellis) is now a New York Times best selling author with a couple Hugo award nominations under her belt.

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I'm not seeing any hugo award nominations for any of her books. She did get "Astounding Award for Best New Writer" in 2021.

the award is presented at the Hugo Award ceremony at the Worldcon, although it is not itself a Hugo Award

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I counted that as one nom, the other was for her video essay series on The Hobbit movies.

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That's how you get this reaction here too

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Funnily enough that's never happened in my 14+ years here. Good on ya, imgur dudes

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Really? That is good to hear. Small faith in community restored.

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Really? It's happened to me as a dude. Lol

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What's your handle on there? Asking for a friend

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What a terrible day to have working eyes.

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Ahh, LNI, there you are

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Or going for a walk, to get the mail, buy groceries, get medical attention, go to work, get gas, throw away garbage, get a drink, go out to eat, see a movie...or do anything in fucking public.

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Yyyyyyyyup

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I am so sorry. I wish I could apologize for my entire gender, but we are still a bunch of horny 14 year olds. SO...I apologize on my own behalf. Men are a bag of dicks.

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Everytime i hear a woman speak of such things i can't even get a remote idea of how this can affect your life. It still is a big problem everywhere.

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It's just kinda... how it is for us. I made this post jokingly because I'm seeking out the hot dogs I want thrown at my face.
But unwanted attention and objectification is something we all experience

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So how would someone know that you're interested in being spoken to if you caught someone's attention if every interaction seems like objectification or unwanted engagement and I ask this will the complete idea that women should feel safe and respected in whatever they are doing but being born in '88 the father to two girls I got out of a 15yr relationship a couple of years ago and want to get back into dating but everything I read here makes me unsure of how to approach

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Well this post is talking about a kink website, where the above image represents my goals.
In real life you just take genuine interest in who they are.

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Oh didn't know that sorry genuinely thought it was something else trying to date again is just scary now is all

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You're on fetlife. Of course you're going to get shit like that. That's what you're soliciting on that site.

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What makes you think this post is a complaint? That's exactly why I'm there

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Because that post has never ever ever not been used as a complaint.

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