Hmmm.. should I maybe have them walk into the bathroom and flush the toilet, you know like a reasonable person, OR be hella vulgar and swear at my young children using an overzealous amount of toxic shame and blame as I can muster? number two it is...
Seriously though. Call me a woke soft libtard soy boy, but I feel this is very harsh language to be directed towards kids that are so small. I appreciate that perhaps this was not this woman’s best day and she was under stress or whatever, and maybe this is an outlier moment, but an entire childhood of this kind of derision will give her a complex when she’s older.
It was short, to the point, and the kids understood what was happening. The mother didn’t call anyone names or get physical or go on about it. Kids often just don’t pay attention unless you’re loud enough to get their attention
i was an only child, so it was always obvious who was to blame about anything wrong in the house...until the day came where for some reason i was extra conscious about something and definitely didnt mess it up yet later there still somehow was again trouble about that very thing...no, im not visiting them for christmas...
I have ADHD and this type of behavior fucked me up for decades, as a child this breeds feelings of helpelsness and incompetence and self doubt. I understand the parents frustration but kids feel 10k more than adults until we're all desensitized to kindness and I find it abhorrent
I never heard my parents use many swear words worse than “shit,” and they were never directed at me. I see videos like this and can tell my parents put a lot of effort into that.
It it? That seemed pretty tame. What was she supposed to do, politely ask her kids to maybe, if they felt like it next time, actually flush the damn toilet?
Yeah it's a bit embarrassing too. I dunno what if it's because of the training potties not having to "flush" that it's just something they don't think about when moving onto a regular toilet but I guess that's more on the parents training. Idk, don't have kids
True, it's not just younger people. Kinda thought about all the times I've gone into a public restroom and there has been one unflushed stall. Most of humanity is just dumb
Okay understand me when I say, I do not understand what you are talking about.
What about this is right or wrong?
Literally if I had £1 for everytime ive seen or heard something like this, id be incredibly wealthy, this isnt just normal, its fundamentally british and since ive lived here most of my adult life and a decent part of my childhood, im confused as to what you see that I dont.
I really need you to explain whats toxic about this, because I just dont see it, not only do I not see it, it literally isnt computing with me.
Its like you're watching an entirely different video.
Ive grown up with this, ive seen it or variations of it virtually everyday sometimes multiple times a day. When I say its normal I mean you would struggle to find a household in the UK with kids that doesnt have this.
And a decent number would say this is mild, mine included.
So when she says "it was fucking one of you" to what i assume are 6 to maybe 9 year olds , while yelling, that doesn't even come across not even slightly problematic to you?
Not really no :s my parents swore at me, hell my mom and grandad used to hit me fairly regularly.
Wasn't that much older when I started swearing back at them, and thats how my friends were and how some of them are with their kids today minus the hitting.
Got no kids of my own so I cant really judge based off anything but my own childhood and what I see around me.
And im not from some poor deprived area of the country either, I'm from the middlelands.
I was about to. There's one thing that's 'dasgustang' about this and it's not the state of the toilet. Sure maybe it's a set piece and played for laughs but if so that behaviour's not funny.
Not only is it not funny, but you KNOW that there's behavior like that that is considered normal. Actually, considering the amount of jokingly positive reactions here, it's normal even here.
Even if it is "pure fear", it's probably not because she's afraid of the mother but because she's on the internet doing something more or less forbidden to her, omegle or whatever, so she's startled when the door opens.
siflandollysiflandollyshowROCK
FUCKEN DESGUSTANG
thegarts
“And…Subscribe to my YouTube channel!”
Frustaz
Yeah, my mom was a cunt too.
eXoRainbow
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BrokenAnimal
Are you kidding?
That's golden!
Snezko
what you mean "WAS IT ME?" bloody hell, how's that ever a response to that question... i agree with mum, FUKKEN DISGUSTIN!
polepolekaz
Moms always know how to embarrass their daughters
cyanideremark
The world could do with more Scottish pragmatism
showsovermoveon
saving the world with one less flush at a time.
PwnageHobo
For years now, that "disgusting!" has automatically played in my head whenever I heard the word during daily life, no matter the situation.
peterhinzkunz
yep
Euclid11010
Hmmm.. should I maybe have them walk into the bathroom and flush the toilet, you know like a reasonable person, OR be hella vulgar and swear at my young children using an overzealous amount of toxic shame and blame as I can muster? number two it is...
IakobZ
Mountaineer30680
That little girl looks mortified 🤣
getadogupya
At least imgur has sound now. /gallery/cdjb1EO
youreathing
SHE'S TURNED THE WEANS AGAINST US
FrolickingFrolicking
My first question is, how did that happen? Why didn’t the offender flush the toilet? How and why did this situation happen?
Notably only one voice, of two kids, says “it wasn’t me”
theskepticinme
Ever been around kids? They often don’t remember to flush
Wraid
this one's not Scottish, but northern England I think? Still funny with the accent
MyOtherPetIsACat
Bet 'e cAN 'EAR MEH!
ElbowDeepInSaintCelestine
"Disgustan!" Is an echololia in our house
aminnizami275772
Horrible mother. Traumatized kids
Akoniti
slidewhistlesymphony
Be thankful your mom is not Scottish.
laner7112000
End zoom call
eddbrowne
Should blur kid's face.
Drosophilamelanobastard
Seriously though. Call me a woke soft libtard soy boy, but I feel this is very harsh language to be directed towards kids that are so small. I appreciate that perhaps this was not this woman’s best day and she was under stress or whatever, and maybe this is an outlier moment, but an entire childhood of this kind of derision will give her a complex when she’s older.
approvalguy
This clip has been around since even I was a kid. Was a different time back then.
Still not okay though, you’re right.
theskepticinme
It was short, to the point, and the kids understood what was happening. The mother didn’t call anyone names or get physical or go on about it. Kids often just don’t pay attention unless you’re loud enough to get their attention
STONES1975
oh aye, utter shite
19marcurious57
Strong laddie-on-roof vibes 'ere
Snezko
i could watch this for eternity, never gets old, the moment he goes off i lose it every time i see this clip, bloody perfection right there man!
thevoiddancer
We're not discussing how toxic this kind of outburst is?
Okay then.
RecurringNightmare
i was an only child, so it was always obvious who was to blame about anything wrong in the house...until the day came where for some reason i was extra conscious about something and definitely didnt mess it up yet later there still somehow was again trouble about that very thing...no, im not visiting them for christmas...
forestfart
Sorry, that you got blamed for everything as a kid! Adults tend to get easily aggressive, if something is off. Even when they are the reason.
lighterletter
I have ADHD and this type of behavior fucked me up for decades, as a child this breeds feelings of helpelsness and incompetence and self doubt. I understand the parents frustration but kids feel 10k more than adults until we're all desensitized to kindness and I find it abhorrent
SerialChickenLover
I never heard my parents use many swear words worse than “shit,” and they were never directed at me. I see videos like this and can tell my parents put a lot of effort into that.
GiantFlyingLabia
Definitely on the harsh side. Mum needs tae get a grep
OneBananaForSale
It would have been great if it was a clear joke but the kids look afraid
velcrosnake
It it? That seemed pretty tame. What was she supposed to do, politely ask her kids to maybe, if they felt like it next time, actually flush the damn toilet?
hotrodny
Well, i guess the kids will sue for emotional distress then :D
OffTheGrid99
You’re both right. I ask my kids six times. Nicely. And then somewhat less nicely. Doesn’t everybody? I guess not.
JasonFndrbrkr
My thoughts exactly, thank you
BonnieFlut
So discuss about it then. Instead of this bollocking bs comment.
thevoiddancer
I wrote a comment then checked your other comments. You're a troll. Piss off.
rbudrick
Except when you see this 2x a day for years. Family can fuckin suck.
iamthemurray
Yeah it's a bit embarrassing too. I dunno what if it's because of the training potties not having to "flush" that it's just something they don't think about when moving onto a regular toilet but I guess that's more on the parents training. Idk, don't have kids
iamthemurray
But I've heard it and seen it all just from nieces and friend's kids. All their kids had the habit for a while
rbudrick
It's usually teens in my experience.
iamthemurray
True, it's not just younger people. Kinda thought about all the times I've gone into a public restroom and there has been one unflushed stall. Most of humanity is just dumb
FrancsTireur
Erm...
I dont get it?
This is like one of the quintessential British family interactions.
decyfeRtw
That makes it right now?
FrancsTireur
Okay understand me when I say, I do not understand what you are talking about.
What about this is right or wrong?
Literally if I had £1 for everytime ive seen or heard something like this, id be incredibly wealthy, this isnt just normal, its fundamentally british and since ive lived here most of my adult life and a decent part of my childhood, im confused as to what you see that I dont.
johnblood616
Screaming curse words at kids is bad.
Saying "eVeRyONe dOeS it" is stupid.
FrancsTireur
No you're failing to grasp what im saying, whether its good or bad, this is cultural to us.
America may think that Britain is a colony, but culturally this is one of the few areas where we are radically different apparently.
thevoiddancer
This is exactly what makes it even more toxic. Because it's "normal".
FrancsTireur
I really need you to explain whats toxic about this, because I just dont see it, not only do I not see it, it literally isnt computing with me.
Its like you're watching an entirely different video.
Ive grown up with this, ive seen it or variations of it virtually everyday sometimes multiple times a day. When I say its normal I mean you would struggle to find a household in the UK with kids that doesnt have this.
And a decent number would say this is mild, mine included.
Jinxer13
So when she says "it was fucking one of you" to what i assume are 6 to maybe 9 year olds , while yelling, that doesn't even come across not even slightly problematic to you?
FrancsTireur
Not really no :s my parents swore at me, hell my mom and grandad used to hit me fairly regularly.
Wasn't that much older when I started swearing back at them, and thats how my friends were and how some of them are with their kids today minus the hitting.
Got no kids of my own so I cant really judge based off anything but my own childhood and what I see around me.
And im not from some poor deprived area of the country either, I'm from the middlelands.
tanebot
I was about to. There's one thing that's 'dasgustang' about this and it's not the state of the toilet. Sure maybe it's a set piece and played for laughs but if so that behaviour's not funny.
thevoiddancer
Not only is it not funny, but you KNOW that there's behavior like that that is considered normal. Actually, considering the amount of jokingly positive reactions here, it's normal even here.
swofromtherock
The way the girl on the left jumps, this is not staged, that's pure fear.
DeanSledgehammer
Even if it is "pure fear", it's probably not because she's afraid of the mother but because she's on the internet doing something more or less forbidden to her, omegle or whatever, so she's startled when the door opens.
OnFridaysWeWearBeskar
Then she should learn to flush.
swofromtherock
And you should learn some empathy.
OnFridaysWeWearBeskar
Since it's clearly not the first time they've been leaving turds in the toilet, and is a repeat issue, no.
Affray
1)I'd startle if someone opened a door unannounced and was already speaking before it was open. They weren't paralysed, no crying, just
Affray
2)a normal human startle. Have your opinions on how people parent, but these kids clearly aren't living in pure fear of a tyrant. It's a mom
Affray
3)who's using less than perfect energy to tell her kids to flush the toilet, but no one is being traumatised here.