Well, that door is closed

Mar 5, 2021 12:05 AM

amuricano

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In all honesty, it makes me more sad than anything. We had a very meaningful relationship 10 years ago, and he has texted me a couple times a year since. Happened back in 2017 and he never mentioned it, of course. I’m also disgusted. What a mix of emotions.

At least you know now and can move on?

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Confession bear done right

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You dodged one hell of a bullet there, OP

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

eeeeeeYIKES.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I did this a few years ago. Googled my bff from high school and found out he's registered for the same thing. Gross.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

My ex's all have kids and/or successful careers.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My exes are doing way better than they deserve, cheating and manipulative bitches.

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5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

TIL that googling exes is a thing people do

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

Yeh I mean, Facebook and Instagram are right there.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Something similar happened to me but with a (ex)friend. It’s so hard to get over it. If u ever need to vent I’m happy to help!

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You dated Jared?

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I too recently found an ex is a pedophile. Amazing how much of a bullet I dodged.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

TBH his name is Peter File...

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I didn't know it was something you signed up for

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

What made you google him?

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

All it takes is an accusation and a shitty judge. No proof even needed.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

You too huh? My ex is the exact same way.... Googled him and the news article pops up about it.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

you guys have exes?

5 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 1

Seven evil exes. XXXXXXX

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I don't know how that shit happens to people, when i'm browsing different porn sites and happen to bump into something that looks shady, i

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

back the fuck out of there ASAP >.<

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm not sure what happens to people who watch a couple of videos by accident. But creating, distributing it would most likely mean jail time

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeeeeeeah you are way off here

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

They do it on purpose. Do you think everyone who looks at CP does it accidentally??

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thank God you got out of that relationship. Could have had the FBI raiding your home in the middle of the night if things had worked out.

5 years ago | Likes 377 Dislikes 4

or... might have had something fulfilling in his life and never felt the urge to drift in that direction. we don't know.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 14

jfc ... What the fuck is wrong with you?

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

i mean, 140 characters isn't nearly enough to get into that list. but the point was... there's some kind of cause for it.

5 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 5

I was dating a girl once, and she was telling me all these stories about her ex. She didnt even realise that her ex is a pedo. That's how

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I had to explain to her what grooming is, she refused to believe it at the start I hope she understands it now.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Mine is a psychologist now. I'm glad she is doing well!

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Is he from Toronto? I ask because someone I worked with got hauled off in cuffs at work the same year for the same thing and he was divorcd

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

My ex is just a straight up whore

5 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 5

Like he signed up for it?

5 years ago | Likes 67 Dislikes 3

This broke me

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This comment is underrated haha

5 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

The older boy who sexuality assaulted me in junior high school is registered for assaulting other girls under age 12 after drugging them.

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Is he serving time?

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm not sure if he's currently incarcerated. He did serve time for a felony assault on a drugged minor under age 12. He has four than thirty

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

**more than thirty mug shots on the county records page.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't get how some pedos can still roam freely.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He has 44 arrest records, many of them including burglary, vandalism, drunk and belligerent, assaulting an officer, failing to notify of new

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

address, violation of parole. How is he not in prison already?!

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I knew someone who was [very] seemingly wrongly accused and still forced into a plea. Maybe ask his side of it and use a huge grain of salt?

5 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 5

It doesn’t happen like that in my state. It’s almost impossible to get on that list.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Person I knew had a forensic computer analysis that all but guaranteed his innocence but due to an unrelated charge was forced to plea. Sad.

5 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

The sex-offender legal system is DEEPLY flawed. Getting drunk & peeing w/in 100ft of playground gets you on the same list as a serial rapist

5 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 2

What if you pee on a kid?

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Oh cool, I found out my ex was arrested for filming boys in the changing rooms at a public pool.

5 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

In retrospect, his confusion over age of consent our first time strikes home (UK, it's 16, I was 17, he initially thought it was 18).

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I found out my ex got a girl under 13 pregnant. Then went on the run for 2 yrs and got caught. He's serving a 25 yr sentence nearby.

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Damn! Dodged a missile there.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What a monster.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Was it just his name, or was there more identifying information?

5 years ago | Likes 74 Dislikes 0

I googled his name and city. The sex offender report was on the first page multiple time because it happened where he lived.

5 years ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 0

Oh shit

5 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Did it state the exact charge? I know 4 guys 3 of which had to register for urinating in public. All 4 just drunks.

5 years ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 3

Had a friend charged for peeing on school grounds at 2AM. No one was there but us and the cop.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That’s insane

5 years ago | Likes 48 Dislikes 0

In the US if your willy is out, they'll say you're trying to use it. Even though they give you zero bathroom privacy.

5 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 2

That’s sad

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

That's a scary thought. I've peed on the side of the road a couple times during emergencies.

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I mean, the meme says what the charge was for.

5 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 0

Whoops, I read it but didn't register it.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What an insane law/interpretation. TLDR more than half of finnish males are sex offenders me included. Makes zero sense.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Same. I know 2 guys that had to do that as well!

5 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

I knew someone who was charged as a 17 year old for pissing on a tree on the school grounds when he was at soccer practice.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Plot twist: OP is 20

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Damnit you stole my line

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5 years ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 1

You really shouldn't

5 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 1

If I made good choices my life wouldn't be where it is.

5 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

It does sound like we would get along

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Like triplets that stole cookies.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I laughed. I felt bad after. But I still laughed.

5 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

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OP is turning 32 tomorrow :)

5 years ago | Likes 473 Dislikes 5

Hard to let your first 10 year relationship fully fade.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Happy birthday! I'm turning 33 tomorrow

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday!! ☆

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday yo

5 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday OP

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday ?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday ?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday OP! ?

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday! How have the dirty 30's been treating you?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday!

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday! 32's been great to me so far

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday @Op :D

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- the 35 year old

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happy RL cake day

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is he an ex from 2000?

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Happy birthday!!!! Party hard!

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday op

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum Geburtstag from Germany.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well it’s now 12:12 am where I live so happy birthday @OP MAKE SURE TO PARTY

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Happy birthday OP!! ?

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I tun 38 tomorrow. Happy Birthday.

5 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

Happy birthday ?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Me too!

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday!

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday OP

5 years ago | Likes 260 Dislikes 1

??

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thank you!!

5 years ago | Likes 92 Dislikes 0

Happy bday op!!

5 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Do us a favor and live for another 32...

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Why are you googling exes? Sincere question.

5 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 4

My ex had a lot of issues. Part of me wants to see if he matured and settled down, but my monkey brain wants to see his drama from afar.

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

So...you single?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Nope! That ex is from 2006 lol. Been with my now husband ever since. Best breakup ever!

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm scared to Google him though. He would probably pop up as a suggested friend on Facebook. It's a two way street. He would know lol.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

unlog from all your accounts, open incognito

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sometimes you get bored and want to see if you're doing better than your previous choices

5 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 0

I never google my exes because I'm sure they're all doing better than me. I mean, they're not dating me, for one thing.

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

That's funny. I like that.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

So insecurity?

5 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 18

No, just plain old curiosity...

5 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 1